As the Christmas season approaches, everywhere we look, we are enticed to want this new thing or that new invention. “Don’t you desire this for your home?” “Aren’t you longing for the newest _____(fill in the blank)?” “Unwrap this gift under your Christmas tree this year. She will love you for it.”
As I think about my vision for 2017, I have been pondering my desires and longings. These desires and longings are gifts within my soul that I can either experience or share with others. They aren’t about “things”. They are about who I want to “be” and how I want to “do” or serve others in my work and family and finally what I want to “have” for the new year. Everything starts with being first, rather than doing and having.
Want to Be
I think one of my strongest desires for the new year is to be still so I can hear the small, still voice of God. When I sit still, I can hear and feel loved. I also find peace and hope.
I also want to be fully present. I don’t want to miss moments in my day. In the past, my anxiety and depression clouded my thinking and now that I have my health back mostly, I want to be aware of the beauty, the relationships, and even the dailyness of my life and savor those moments. I am one to rush on to the next thing. I want to better pace my days by being fully present and enjoying my surroundings, my work and my family.
The third area I want to be is strongly connected to those around me, whether it be God, my husband and family, friends, church, neighborhood or the women I serve. Connection is so important to me and grounds me to health and vitality.
What about you? How do you want to be this next year? What are the desires and longings of your soul?
Want to Do
In the “do” area of my life. I long to do service that makes a difference in the lives of people with whom I am involved. I want to write encouragement to others. I want to create safe and beautiful spaces for women who want to make a change in their lives and find hope. I also want to make beautiful and loving places for my grandchildren to have fun with “grandma and papa” to help them feel special.
My want to do’s come out of my want to be’s connection desires.
How does your do and be fit together? What are your desires and longings that you want to bring to life for 2017?
Want to Have
When I get my want to be and want to do in alignment for 2017, I believe my desires and longings for my “haves” will fall into place. For my want to haves, I want to have gratitude and enjoy what I have currently. I want to have more gatherings and groups of women together – creating those safe spaces, and retreats. I want to enjoy those connections with others – online, in my neighborhood, my church and in the surrounding areas.
I want to have a beautiful backyard to enjoy. I want to have a screened-in area in order to enjoy the beauty of the trees, flowers and nature as well as share it with others. Getting outdoors is an important component of my health so creating a space where I have access to enjoy it will make a difference. Again, that is in congruence with my be still desires, and my want to do longing to connect with God, others and creation.
How will your want to have support your be and do?
Gifts to Unwrap
Of course, I have other be, do, have desires and longings I could share. These are just a few of the gifts in my life I hope to unwrap in 2017. I hope it’s given you a glimpse of how you might make a gift list for 2017 for yourself. Take time for yourself and listen to your heart. I want to create safe spaces for you to explore the dreams and possibilities in your life and find hope. That’s my biggest desire for 2017. Get involved in the “Create Your Dreams Vision Board” workshop to coming up, January 21st by contacting me for more information. Let’s unwrap your gifts for 2017 together.
This time of year, many of our thoughts turn to a new page for 2017. Everywhere I turn, I see lots of ideas for making 2017 the best year yet. What is it about the new year that inspires us to think fresh thoughts or vision? Is it the blank calendar in front of us? Is it that hope springs eternal? Or is it one more month to mark the years speeding by, the things we didn’t get done in 2016? Or the disappointments, losses and worries we may carry with us into the new year? Where are you on the continuum?
I have been absent from your in box for awhile. At the end of 2015, I retired due to health issues, mostly anxiety and depression. I wasn’t at all sure what 2016 would bring. Thankfully, I am back to health, writing and coaching!
What has made the difference? How can what I’ve learned perhaps make a difference for you? Here are 3 things that I have experienced lately may also help you find hope for 2017.
Listening to God
I began to listen more closely to God this fall. No revelations or anything especially spiritual beyond developing a closer relationship with Him. He says I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Psalms 139:14. When I operate in that belief system, I know I am loved and have gained confidence to move forward in other areas of my life. What are your experiences of listening?
Dreams, Desires and Longings
I then, began to dream of how I might create a safe space for women to discover their own vision, possibilities and passion for life that I was beginning to experience again.
A significant part of that dream came into focus by going on a week’s vacation with a good friend of mine. We toured the western coast of Lake Michigan, went to her 50th class reunion and visited her old home place, among other childhood haunts. What was significant to me was the realization of how important women’s friendships are and the support and connections that women can give to each other – sisterhood if you will. Each of us need to find those women who love us unconditionally, create a safe space for us to be ourselves and an opportunity to explore our heart and passions.
I discovered I wanted to bring like-minded women together who were in search of dreams, vision and a change. By creating a safe space and setting aside some time together, we could listen to God, hear the desires and longings of our hearts and begin to build that community of sisters, that fostered hope.
I am so excited for 2017. One way we’ll explore fostering community is through a vision board workshop process which will be a way to bring like-minded women together around their desires and longings and starting a journey together.
A vision board helps us “see” what dreams God has put on our hearts and by doing so, we begin to “see” more the opportunities God puts in front of us. The visuals alert our brains more, much like when we buy a different car, we begin to see that car everywhere.
Once we have our vision, know our desires and longings, then we can work together in community to set our goals and action steps for each month as well as look at any beliefs that may pop up that interfere with our forward progress.
If this idea of a vision board excites you and you are ready for a change, then contact me. I have a vision board workshop coming up in January 21st and then we’ll move forward together from there.
This is your year to “clear out the gunk” in your life. Having a community of women working together in small groups or even one on one coaching can be powerful ways to hope. I look forward to hearing from you.
In the early morning hours, I get up to spend alone time with God. My premise is I desire to partner with God. However, before you say, “isn’t that nice” or “I could never do that.” or think I am some kind of amazing person, let me tell you how messy it is.
Some mornings I am headachey, tired or worried or not ready to be focused.. What do I do? I get on Facebook or check emails. Suddenly, 30-45 minutes have disappeared and I am no wiser or more satisfied with life.
Earlier in my life, when I had a short amount of time to meet with God, I would set a timer. I didn’t want to be watching the clock. I knew I had 30 minutes before I had to get out the door. I became more focused on reading, writing in my journal, praying and listening to what God wanted to say to me. Now that I am in semi-retirement and working for myself, I am not nearly as disciplined or focused on how we can be working together in partnership.
Lately, I have been encouraged to pray for my business and how I am to serve women well. I have been challenged to make God an active partner in my business. What could that look like? How can I pray specifically for His partnership?. The following steps may work for you in whateverrole fills your day – either as a full-time mom or grandmother or out in the work world. This six-step process has got me back on track to realizing God as my business partner. He wants to be with me in partnership moment by moment throughout the day.
6 ACTION Steps to Partnership with God
A dore Him– Choose a Bible passage (like in Psalms) to read 3 times and let it wash over you. What words shimmer? This is a lectio divina practice.
C onfess– Ask God for one word or phrase He wants you to realize to confess and turn back to Him.
T hank Him– Write down three things you are grateful for and why. What are even little things to be thankful for, like the sunshine?
I nquire of Him –Determine specific prayer requests for your family/friends (5) and for your business/work/service (5)
O xygenize Breathe and pray– Take time to breathe and listen – 10-20 minutes of focusing on one word or a phrase, like “Jesus, have mercy” or “peace” to let God sink into your soul. This is a centering prayer practice.
N ext Steps – Ask God for the next steps in the day ahead. Watch for His partnership throughout the day.
I don’t get these steps perfect and I’m not there yet in getting all these pieces into my habits. However, I am feeling more freedom and seeing more of God in partnership with me in my business and my day-to-day work. (As an aside, I took the photo above. It’s my journal and Bible on the chair in my room. I randomly laid my pen across my journal. I didn’t see that it formed a cross until after I looked at the picture. I felt His encouragement to say, “I’m here with you, Nancy. I’m your partner.”)
I’ll keep you posted on how I progress with this discipline. I would love to know what you try and how you see God at work in your life. We are all on a journey to know and love God more and more. I would love to join you in your journey.
A water well is such a necessity. Those of us who live in cities and turn on the faucet take for granted how easy it is to access water and bring it up from wherever the water comes from, an underground aquifer or spring, river or even man-made reservoir. I happen to live in the country away from the water districts and have “drilled” well that reaches down into the ground to the underlying aquifer of clean water and brings me access to water each day.
When I think about wells, though, I think about the well we had on our farm property growing up. We had a big top on it and when Dad periodically took the top off, I could peer down into the darkness to see if I could see the bottom or see the water. I couldn’t and it always was scary to me to peer down into the well and think about all the creepy crawly things that might be down there (there weren’t because he kept the lid on) but my imagination in the dark could run wild.
I have been thinking about the darkness in the well of my own soul. I take it for granted that I will get clean, loving thoughts and emotions from it. I can just get up in the morning, start my day and out comes goodness, kindness, peace, love and joy. NOT!
I am surprised by the dark, creepy crawly creatures that linger right under the surface when I am not drawing the fresh clean water from the well of my soul and letting God bring light into my whole being. These last weeks have been filled with family outings, family health crisis (my 93 year old father-in-law had a pacemaker put in – he’s doing well – amazing modern medicine!) extra people in my home, and my own distractions. I haven’t been sitting and doing my regular time with God or having the solitude I usually get.
The result is I begin to control everyone in sight! I get snippy, cranky, and of course, know how everyone should be living their lives. I become the wicked witch of the West. Not pretty!!! I realized that when I get so outwardly critical and controlling that the darkness is calling me to come into His light.
He gently reminded me yesterday that for 10 days straight, I have been running and not taking care of myself. The martyr in me rises up quite quickly! How do I get back on track and throw those creepy, crawly things out of my well and come into the light?
The rest of my world will function fine without me for a while. I need to get away and spend time with and for myself. I do that and then I fall away. It is a consistent battle, and yet one I know I need for my soul’s nurturing.
I was doing a good job of beating up on myself. ” I should do this. What is going on? Why am I like this? Why am I not doing that? I will never do ….. “The negative self-chatter was going strong. That was another indicator that I wasn’t taking care of myself. I would never talk to a friend like that. God doesn’t talk to me like that and He doesn’t want me to talk to myself like that. I can use the negative chatter as an indicator that it’s time to refresh my soul and sit down with God. I am to be gentle on myself.
Especially in Wisconsin, spring is so beautiful. Outdoors is one of the most healing places to be. When I get in these dark moods, I know I haven’t been outside much. Even yesterday, I spent much of the day outside, enjoying God’s beautiful creation and enjoying my husband’s company. What a difference I felt at being outdoors!
What about you? How do you bring yourself out of your dark places? I would love to know. If you would like someone to accompany you and listen, please let me know.
It is springtime here in Wisconsin and as I travel the countryside, I come across patches of blackened earth here and there. The contrast is startling as all other growth show bright greens, whites, and pinks, especially on a bright sunny day. If my timing is right, I may even come across a smoky patch, when fire is actually raging.
These fires and blackened fields are actually “prescribed burns” for the prairie patches still left in the area, especially on the state’s natural properties. The burns are used to maintain the health of our natural areas and rid them of invasive species. These prescribed burns help prairies by:
Managing weeds and invasive species
Restoring and releasing nutrients
Prairie plants have deep roots and the key growing part of the plant is below ground, where the fire does not penetrate. Therefore, the fire, by destroying the weeds and invasive plants, allows the prairie plants to flourish.
What About You?
“Everyone’s going through a refining fire sooner or later, but you’ll be well-preserved, protected from the eternal flames.” Mark 9:49 The Msg
When was the last time you went through a “prescribed burn”? A refining fire may or may not have been your choice. As the verse above reminds us, everyone’s going through a refining fire sooner or later – a health issue that turns big, a job loss, the death of a loved one, retirement, even the transition of children leaving home can be a refining fire – whatever transition you may be facing. A prescribed burn could be a smaller refinement, too – a fight with your family or friend, a problem with your boss or teammates at work, a reoccurring health issue – like a thorn in the side.
Whatever your “prescribed burn” is, think about the how fire helps the prairie plant. Could fire help…
Manage Invasive Weeds in Your Life
When faced with a fire, all resources and attention are placed on controlling the fire. For example, my prescribed burn was my depression. When I was fighting my depression, I let go of outside activities and focused on finding what was necessary for regaining my health. I focused on eating healthy, exercise, meditation, getting outdoors, asking for help from my family, medication, and monitoring my thinking. I needed to manage those invasive weeds in my life such as saying yes when I meant no, and understanding the difference between reality and expectations as well as giving myself permission to take care of myself. God lead me to a time of burning away the unhealthy practices so I could begin to see what health could look like.
Restore and Release Nutrients
The “prescribed burn” for the prairie restores and releases nutrients. The heat of the fire for some plants releases seeds that would not otherwise be released. It burns away the hard outer core.
It takes heat and fire at times to find our true creative self that God has placed within us. He has restored my health and released the nutrients of encouragement and love into my life and I am grateful. This can be true for you as you go through a “prescribed burn”. I didn’t do it alone. I walked with my coach, my spiritual director, my own family, and my church family. The seeds that have been released have been watered and tendered by the community around me.
After a “prescribed burn,” new green growth begins to appear. I love going back to that blackened earth to see the first few sprouts coming up. It truly represents how I feel as I am coming out of my depression. I am so enjoying the new sprouts of growth that are occurring – coaching, spiritual direction, writing, relationships. Without the “prescribed burn” of my depression, I would not be noticing these new sprouts. All of this noticing is occurring because of this new and closer relationship I have with God.
He has restored me and released me to a new way of living with Him. For me, I have found a new career, a new calling, a new way of serving and loving on women as well as my own true identity. That is what “prescribed burns” can do. Get rid of the unimportant and invasive weeds in your life and help you focus on how He wants to delight in you and restore new growth.
What wall are you hitting? What invasive weeds need to be burned out of your life so those beautiful prairie plants can grow? I would love to accompany you to make sure that prairie fire doesn’t burn out of control. Or if you’re coming out of a fire, that you begin to notice the new growth that is occurring. Contact me for a free consultation. Let’s see how you can begin to flourish more today.
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In the busyness of life, I sometimes look up and wonder, “Where did God go?” In reality, He didn’t go anywhere, I am just not paying attention. I remember author Priscilla Schirer writing about that concept in that it was the TV antenna not getting good reception- me. There was nothing wrong with the sending station- God!
How, then, do I go about getting reconnected with God when I feel I can get nothing more in my day, or even in my brain?
1 – Rekindle Your Desire
God says when we come looking for Him we will find Him.
“When you come looking for me, you’ll find me. “Yes, when you get serious about finding me and want it more than anything else, I’ll make sure you won’t be disappointed.” God’s Decree. Jeremiah 29:13-14a The Message
What is it you are longing for in a relationship with God? How do you see Him? Father, Healer, Savior, Friend, Mentor, King, Helper, Protector… Begin to dream about what a relationship with God could look like, sound like, feel like. Imagine God sitting in the chair across from you, waiting to hear your heart. He delights in you and wants to know what on your heart and mind.
2-Set Up a Listening Time
In building a relationship with a friend, you spend time with that friend, you ask questions, you want to know more about what they are thinking, how they see the world, what they like, what they don’t like, what they like about you. God is no different. He wants to spend time with you, letting you know what is on His heart for your life, how He sees you, what He loves about you, how He has created you.
In order to find out those things, you need to set up a listening time. How do you listen best? Is it with music and audio devotions ? Is it writing and journaling? Is it reading Scriptures and devotionals? Experiment with a variety of ways that work for you in order to best tune in to God’s voice. He speaks to us in a variety of ways and methods.
One of my favorite ways is Lectio Divina which is a contemplative way to read Scripture.
First one goes to a quiet place and recalls that one is about to listen to the Word of God. Then one reads the scripture passage aloud to let oneself hear with his or her own ears the words. When one finishes reading, pause and recall if some word or phrase stood out or something touched one’s heart. If so, pause and savor the insight, feeling, or understanding. Then go back and read the passage again because it will have a fuller meaning. Pause again and note what happened. If one wants to dialogue with God or Jesus in response to the word, one should follow the prompting of one’s heart. This kind of reflective listening allows the Holy Spirit to deepen awareness of God’s taking the initiative to speak with us. –
3- Lay Everything At His Feet
Remember that when you look for Him, He sees you as His beautiful child. He’s given you Jesus to believe in, therefore you receive God’s love and forgiveness and grace. With grace – unmerited favor- you have everything you need to move forward in that love relationship with God. He longs to have you close to Him.
6-7 Don’t fret or worry. Instead of worrying, pray. Let petitions and praises shape your worries into prayers, letting God know your concerns. Before you know it, a sense of God’s wholeness, everything coming together for good, will come and settle you down. It’s wonderful what happens when Christ displaces worry at the center of your life. Philippians 4:6-7 The Message
You can move closer to God. It does take carving out some time and some intention on your part. Yet that longing in your heart is real and He’s calling you out of love. He has created you as a beautiful masterpiece and is waiting to hear your heart.
Sometimes it takes a partner to walk the journey with you. That partner can be a friend to talk to about what you are hearing God say to you or a spiritual director. A spiritual director is someone who facilitates a monologue with yourself and listens to the activity of God in your life. I would love to come alongside you and encourage your walk with God. I am setting up several new appointments now. Contact me for your free consultation to explore what a journey could look like. See how God is calling to you.
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To Discover ways to walk more consistently with Him daily
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Chaos pops up in our lives when we least expect it. A major accident occurs and your life is totally disrupted to help your loved one get well. Or you suddenly find yourself laid off from work and don’t know which way to turn. In my case, someone in my extended family needed to get out of a difficult living arrangement. She had one day to pack up and empty a three-bedroom house!
My first instinct, unfortunately, was anxiety. What to do to help? How can we do this? When can we do this? Who can help? the questions stated racing through my head.
Then God gently reminded me He is able. He sees the whole situation. He has my family members covered. I do have a supportive role to play. However, worrying was not one of those roles.
As I prayed over the next few days, I realized God had several steps that I could do to fight the chaos.
Focus on Him
My eyes were to be on Him, His strength, His power and His direction, not on the drama and emotion swirling around me. In Psalm 102:27, I was reminded:
But you are always the same; you will live forever. The children of your people will live in security. Their children’s children will thrive in your presence.”
The words of being always the same were so encouraging as well as the security and thriving of my children and children’s children. I could move forward in confidence that He knew the path were were to take and He had everything covered.
Ask for Help
In order to accomplish this task of packing and emptying the house in one day, we needed to ask for help. My daughter asked her friends, I asked church friends and our family members pitched in the day of the move. On the actual day of the move, we had ten people at the house, packing boxes and moving furniture.
Get Prayer Coverage
In addition to my own prayers, I asked other people to be praying for the day of the move. I was still feeling edgy the day before the move. However, the morning of the move, I felt peaceful, confident and strengthened- lifted by the prayers of friends and the love of God. It was like “Let’s go get this done.” with His hand and direction..
Attack the Issue
By noon, we had all gathered at the house. In three and a half hours, we packed boxes and loaded the moving van. By 4:30 pm we had transported the furniture to storage, unloaded it and were sitting down to a picnic supper together. It was a feat that only God and His helpers could accomplish!
I realized that day, in the midst of chaos, the importance of my focus on Him, asking for help, valuing of community, praying and being lifted up by others, and moving forward with His help. I was overwhelmed with gratitude for all the people and pieces that had fallen together.
My prayer for you is that when you find yourself in chaos, that you will take time to focus on Him and see what help He longs to bring to your chaos. I would love to be part of those who are lifting you up in prayer as you wade through the waters of chaos. It is a relief to get to the other side of one chaotic event, knowing He’ll be there for the next one! Let me know how I can be praying for you and/or accompanying you on your journey – email@example.com
Nothing can separate us from the love of God – Romans 8:38-38
As I walked into the room, my daughter looked up from the chair. She had just finished nursing her son and he was sound asleep. They both looked so contented.
God has used that picture of nourishment and love to remind me of how He wants to love me and encircle me with His love. The bond of mother and child provides love, nurture, safety, security, protection, warmth, and a feeling of well-being. If I think about God’s love encircling me, I can bury myself in His love and feel how much He loves and cares for me. When I am focused on Him, my emotions settle down and circumstances are less important.
He reminds me that “Daughter, I know your name.” With that kind of grounding, I can move forward to what He has called me to do. My calling is to facilitate a monologue with a woman so she can hear her own heart and discover the creative masterpiece that God has placed within her. It is such a privilege to come along side women as they get to know themselves, know God’s love and connect with other women through retreats, group coaching and spiritual direction.
Come to Me
How do we get to know our own souls? First by coming to Him. Come to me all you who are weary and I will give you rest. A time of retreat gives you a chance to retreat and rest, like a baby on it’s mothers chest. You can take time to find contentment in His arms. It takes getting alone to hear Him.
As you take the time to come and listen and be still, you then can wonder. Wonder is that chance to be in awe of the Eternal God who made you. You are wonderfully made. You are His creative Masterpiece. He knows you inside and out. Solitude is a chance to hear and feel the majesty of His love for you. You have that chance to gaze into His eyes and see the love He has for you. Gazing includes time in the Scriptures or time in creation as you hear what He speaks to your heart.
Finally, you begin to discover the amazing love He has for you and what the possibilities could be of living fully in His love. What does it look like to live in His Love? How can you live day to day in His love?
Sacred Self Discovery
What wholeness could He restore for you during time of solitude and stillness? What is your heart’s desire? Take time for yourself this month by joining me on the retreat, Sacred Self Discovery A Woman’s Day Retreat to feel His love and delight for you. You will be so glad you did. There is still time now to sign up!
How would you described your life currently? As you get up in the morning are you feeling active, busy, driven, tired, exhausted, burned out, anxious and overloaded even before your first cup of coffee? Or are you feeling “well-rested”?
“Hurry sickness” seems to have become a way of life with our carburetors set on high, and our gears stuck in overdrive. Our lives tend to run non-stop. I know I am working hard at changing the bad habits I acquired when teaching daily. I call it the “scurry” mode. Most days, I hardly realize I am “scurrying”
Jesus addresses this scurry mode well:
“Are you tired? Worn out? Burned out on religion? Come to me. Get away with me and you’ll recover your life. I’ll show you how to take a real rest. Walk with me and work with me—watch how I do it. Learn the unforced rhythms of grace. I won’t lay anything heavy or ill-fitting on you. Keep company with me and you’ll learn to live freely and lightly.” Mat 11:28-32 The Msg
How do we being to discover real rest?
What does a healthy lifestyle include?
According to Dr. Richard A. Swenson, author of Margin, the healthiest lifestyles come with four gears.
First gear is park for the contemplative, thinking times. This is for rest, renewal and solitude time. This gear helps us recharge our batteries.
Second gear is low. This is for relationships, for family and friends. This is how we are when we are in the present moment, reading a book to a child or they ask about the death of a pet or God. No hurry here: just quality.
Third gear is drive. This is our usual gear for work and play. This gear uses lots of energy and it makes us feel productive. We move from place to place quickly
Fourth gear is overdrive. This gear is reserved for those times that require extra effort, like meeting a deadline, or a doctor with flu season. Unfortunately our culture has gotten us to expect to not shift down from overdrive. For some of us to slow down is unthinkable.
What are 3 areas of real rest?
These three areas make up the totality of real rest. Physical rest is the least important although valuable. Emotional rest becomes even more important. Spiritual rest is the most important, albeit widely neglected rest.
I. Physical Rest – “Are you tired? “
For physical rest, sleep is the clearest area that cannot be violated. For most adults, according to the National Sleep Foundation, 7-9 hours is recommended. In the research on sleep, less or more sleep was found to profoundly impact cognitive abilities and actually lessen productivity. We also fight the cultural urge to be productive and make progress. We must look for ways to teach ourselves it is okay to rest physically.
II. Emotional Rest- “Worn Out?”
Emotional rest comes when we are able to let go of worries, and expectations and work on accepting our realities. We are to enjoy what we have for the day. We wear out our brains from thinking, thinking, thinking. like thoughts running around in our minds like a hamster on a flywheel. If our hearts are full of bitterness or unforgiveness or fighting, we are also worn out. Finding emotional rest comes from a mind that focuses on the love, joy,peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness that Jesus provides.
III. Spiritual Rest- “Burned Out on Religion?”
I love the fact that Jesus addresses the crowd of people directly about being burned out on religion. Seeking Jesus and knowing Him personally can help you recover your life as He says. It’s not about “doing” religion. It’s about “being” in the presence of Jesus and resting at His feet. Taking time to be with Him in the quiet or with a spiritual director who listens with you or worshiping with like-minded people help you take a real rest spiritually.
Which area of rest will give you the most bang for your efforts? Where will you start making changes? How will you begin to find real rest for yourself? I hope you can find some rest for your weariness in these areas.
Taking time for spiritual rest, spiritual listening and remembering our roots is amazing refreshment. He wants us to recover our lives. Spiritual rest is often the most neglected as well. I would love to accompany you on your spiritual journey. Contact me to explore conversations that can transform your heart. Also by this Sunday, April 10th, early bird registration ends for the retreat, Sacred Self Discovery A Woman’s Day Retreat. I hope you’ll take time to come connect with God, with other women and your heart.